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Pauli
01-18-2008, 06:16 PM
By R. SCOTT RAPPOLD (scott.rappold@gazette.com)
THE GAZETTE
January 18, 2008 - 1:59PM



A 4-year-old Colorado Springs girl was repeatedly struck in the head, slammed against a door and a metal bed frame, held underwater and sexually abused, according to an arrest affidavit released Thursday.

Madyson Bogard died at Memorial Hospital on Wednesday. An autopsy today by the El Paso County Coroner's Office determined her death was a homicide, the second in Colorado Springs this year. The girl died of an injury caused by a blow to the head, the autopsy found.

Her mother, Chrystie Marie Hardy, 23, and Hardy’s boyfriend, Mark Alton Friend, 25, are being held in El Paso County jail on suspicion of first-degree murder. They initially were arrested Tuesday on suspicion of attempted murder.

The arrest affidavit says Madyson was abused over 3½ months. The couple’s infant boy, born in early November, was unharmed. He has been placed in the custody of the El Paso County Department of Human Services, police said.

The affidavit says Madyson arrived at Memorial Hospital early Tuesday “essentially dead” from a subdural hematoma, a massive blood clot in the brain, after she was found not breathing at their apartment at 3710 Rebecca Lane.

Her mother told police the girl had fallen on some ice earlier that day, but investigators said she had bruises on her arms, knees and forehead and signs of sexual abuse, according to the affidavit.

Later Tuesday, Hardy admitted to witnessing months of abuse by Friend. She told a detective she saw him throw the girl against a door, and her head hit the doorknob. She told him to be careful, she said, because he might give Madyson brain damage, according to the affidavit.

Hardy said she had struck Madyson in the head so hard that it made her hand tingle. She said she also saw Friend throw Madyson against a bed, hold her face underwater in the bathtub and sexually abuse her. She lied about her slipping on the ice because she “didn’t want Mr. Friend to get into trouble,” the affidavit says.

Detectives interviewed Friend the same day, and they say he admitted to hitting and throwing Madyson, on one occasion throwing her so hard against a metal bed that she bounced back and hit her head on the floor. He also admitted to sexual abuse, the affidavit says.Hardy and Friend told detectives they saw the girl have seizures but didn’t seek medical attention, according to the affidavit.

The affidavit does not indicate when the most recent abuse occurred, though a doctor told investigators her brain injury was no more than 72 hours old, and probably only several hours old.

Madyson died at 9:41 p.m. Wednesday, according to police.

Police Sgt. Bill Derhart said Madyson’s father, Andrew Bogard, has traveled here from his home in Las Cruces, N.M.

Outside the family’s apartment, stuffed animals and candles had been left Thursday as a memorial.

Neighbors interviewed by The Gazette after the child was hospitalized said they never saw any marks or bruises on the girl to indicate abuse.

Derhart said investigators are trying to determine whether there had been reports of child abuse there, but he noted that neither Hardy nor Friend had been arrested for child abuse before. The arrest affidavit makes no mention of previous allegations.

Shirley Rhodus, child protection division manager at the county human services department, said privacy laws prevent her from commenting on the case. But, she said abuse cases involving young children can often remain unnoticed.

“It’s not surprising, but I would be surprised that nobody saw her. That can happen, but it’s unusual,” Rhodus said.

Even when children aren’t in school, she said, someone often spots the signs of abuse.

“Schools and teachers are referral sources for us, but we do get a good number of referrals about preschool-age children, and many of them do come from family members,” Rhodus said.

Derhart said police are still investigating the allegations of sexual abuse.

Texas53
01-18-2008, 06:31 PM
Why are young women letting the boyfriends (its bad enough if its a biological parent) abuse their kids? (Physical as well as sexual) It just blows my mind. I see so many kids abused at the hands of a significant other. If the BF has his own kid by the GF, that child is spared.

Quote from article: Hardy said she had struck Madyson in the head so hard that it made her hand tingle. She said she also saw Friend throw Madyson against a bed, hold her face underwater in the bathtub and sexually abuse her. She lied about her slipping on the ice because she “didn’t want Mr. Friend to get into trouble,” the affidavit says.

What about her child?? To hell with getting that POS in trouble. If these excuses of women care more concerned about these BF's, then use birth control. Apparently these scum bag men aren't going to use a condom, so these stuipd women should. Stop bringing innocent kids in the world to be tortured and murdered!!! :mad:

If there is a death penalty, both should get it. I will be glad to assist. I'm past enraged by these lowlife people killing innocent kids. :mad::mad:

hisgirl_2455
01-18-2008, 06:36 PM
I am horrified...and speechless

do we have pics of these two yet??

hisgirl_2455
01-18-2008, 06:38 PM
Here's their pics...

http://www.thedenverchannel.com/news/15075174/detail.html

Roamer
01-18-2008, 06:40 PM
I'm so glad you posted this, Harlett. I just read it on another board, and was going to search the link.

Are these women so desperate for a man that they will sacrifice their children? :mad: But then, she doesn't sound much better,

Reminds me so much of Baby Grace.

Texas53
01-18-2008, 06:41 PM
I am horrified...and speechless

do we have pics of these two yet??

Its so hard to realize how low our society in this country has sunk. I'm so enraged. I hear about this everyday just in San Antonio alone. If these women don't care about the kids and all they want is a male specimen, adopt the kids out. Anything but situations like this. :mad:

When cases like this can be proven, these females should surgically sterilized.

Pauli
01-18-2008, 06:42 PM
http://www.thedenverchannel.com/2008/0116/15064352_240X180.jpg

Chrystie Marie Hardy and Mark Alton Friend are accused of trying to kill Hardy's 4-year-old daughter.

Texas53
01-18-2008, 06:44 PM
They look like pure evil trash. Looking at their eyes, though its a picture, they look like they have no soul. It's like looking into emptiness. JMHO

Pauli
01-18-2008, 06:46 PM
Its so hard to realize how low our society in this country has sunk. I'm so enraged. I hear about this everyday just in San Antonio alone. If these women don't care about the kids and all they want is a male specimen, adopt the kids out. Anything but situations like this. :mad:

When cases like this can be proven, these females should surgically sterilized.

I just hate this stuff.. she 'knew' he was sexually abusing this child, let alone beating her, and did nothing except join in on the beating. There are so many good people that want kids and can't have them. Then you have people like this having them right and left.

Roamer
01-18-2008, 07:01 PM
Just like with Baby Grace. She not only watched it, she took part. They don't deserve to take another breath, IMO. :mad:

Kami
01-18-2008, 07:05 PM
:( Good grief......what next.

Grande
01-18-2008, 07:56 PM
This absolutely breaks my heart :1187603408.CR.Mothe

What a beautiful little girl;

http://i30.tinypic.com/2jdfl2h.jpg

Hope
01-18-2008, 08:19 PM
This absolutely breaks my heart :1187603408.CR.Mothe

What a beautiful little girl;

http://i30.tinypic.com/2jdfl2h.jpg


:1222423:

Kami
01-18-2008, 08:24 PM
This absolutely breaks my heart :1187603408.CR.Mothe

What a beautiful little girl;

http://i30.tinypic.com/2jdfl2h.jpg


I'm speechless........



She is beautiful!:1222423:

Texas53
01-18-2008, 08:31 PM
When I look at this little angel's picture, I can't help but ask why. Why did she have to suffer and die like she did? Why did any of the children who have died before her, have to die at the hands of people like this little girl's parents? :1222423:

emmeblu
01-19-2008, 10:46 PM
This kind of abuse just makes me want to vomit. WTH is wrong with these women that allow and assist their b/f's in killing their children? Both of these POS's need to be executed!

They are both sickening to look at. What a total waste of space those two are on the face of this earth! :mad::mad::mad:

Hope
01-19-2008, 11:16 PM
Friends of Chrystie Hardy say the jovial and strong woman they knew began to change shortly after she met her boyfriend, Mark Alton Friend.

They say changes began in October with a cryptic plea for help for her and her daughter, Madyson. That’s the same time police say the 4-year-old began being physically abused.

“I want to know who honestly doesn’t like me or my daughter,” Hardy wrote in a text message on Oct. 13. “Be honest and don’t lie. You won’t hurt my feelings.”

Then she started to distance herself, her mood turning from bubbly to dark, and becoming defensive with friends. The telephone calls, e-mails and Internet postings stopped by late October.

“This is not the same person that we knew,” said Lon Luna, of Henderson, Nev. “It’s like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.”

Now Hardy’s friends are trying to figure out why the woman who they knew would do anything for her child is now accused in Madyson’s death. Police arrested Hardy and Friend on Tuesday after officers found the girl at their apartment the day before, not breathing. Madyson died at Memorial Hospital on Wednesday evening from an injury resulting from a blow to the head, the El Paso County Coroner’s Office said Friday.

The coroner ruled Madyson’s death a homicide, the second in Colorado Springs this year. Hardy and Friend are being held in the El Paso County jail on suspicion of first-degree murder.

“(Madyson) was just a little innocent girl,” said Ashley Dolin, who was friends with Hardy in Colorado Springs. Dolin recently moved to Tacoma, Wash. “I have a lot of questions. I continue to ask myself, ‘Why didn’t I ask them how they were doing more? Why wasn’t anyone there to stop it?’ Who knows what was going on at the time.”

According to an arrest affidavit, Madyson was abused from October to January. Hardy told investigators she saw Friend physically and sexually abusing Madyson, according to the affidavit. She also told investigators that on one occasion, she struck Madyson in the head so hard that it made her hand tingle.

Friend also admitted hitting and throwing Madyson, as well as sexually abusing the girl, the affidavit stated.

Hardy’s friends on Friday said her ex-husband, Andrew Bogard, had been fighting for custody of Madyson. In October, Bogard was in the Las Vegas area trying to locate Hardy. She had moved from Nevada to Colorado in 2005 after she divorced Bogard to start a new life with Madyson, friends said.

“Andrew told me that Mark was hurting Chrystie, and he was afraid that he was hurting Mady, too,” said Faith Musso of Henderson, Nev.

Friends of Hardy’s said they believe she changed after she began her relationship last summer with Friend, who they said was very controlling.

“She had to be careful with what she said,” Musso said of their phone calls. “Mark was always there. He monitored everything.”

Musso was surprised to learn that she was the only person who knew Hardy was pregnant with Friend’s child early last year. Musso said that Hardy was afraid to tell people about the pregnancy.

The couple’s infant boy has been placed in the custody of the El Paso County Department of Human Services. Police said he was not hurt.

It appeared as though Friend did not like Madyson, friends said.

Musso said Madyson took a trip to visit Hardy’s parents in New Mexico that lasted a little more than a month. Madyson returned to Colorado Springs in October.

“He just didn’t want her around,” she said.


http://www.gazette.com/articles/madyson_32153___article.html/hardy_friends.html

maryhaze
01-19-2008, 11:22 PM
if they didn't want her around, why the hell didn't they let the bio dad take her??? these things need to fry!!!!!!

Polonius
01-20-2008, 10:53 AM
There's something missing IMO from a mother who wouldn't defend and protect her child.

Roamer
01-20-2008, 10:55 AM
ITA, Polonius, but we're seeing it so often. A mother is supposed to protect her young, not help abuse and kill them. :mad:

gibbrishclown
01-20-2008, 12:43 PM
she told him to be careful, that he might give her brain damage

I can't wrap my mind around that. I'm so glad baby brother was unharmed and placed outside the family... I hope it's permanent.

that poor baby girl. :(

awakening2lite
01-20-2008, 01:31 PM
I wonder if drugs played any role in this.

How do people go from being sane and caring to malicious to the helpless?

They deserve no mercy.

The mother deserves the harshest penalty.